Tuesday, June 1, 2010

CAN A WOMAN RETAIN A POSITION OF POWER WITHOUT BEING A BITCH?

Hey my lovely followers, today's topic is women in power. In particular I'd like to voice my opinion on how many women in power conduct themselves towards other women. First of all I'd like to say that I myslef am a woman and consider myslef a modern day feminist. I believe women are just as capable as men of anything they put their mind to. That being said, I have, unfortunately, noticed a pattern in my own experiences with women in power. Many women in power that I have worked or volunteered under or even been taught by in University have had serious serious behavioural issues. I have been stabbed in the back, sabotaged, belittled and insulted by these women and believe me I did NOT deserve that kind of treatment from any of them. Is it jealousy? Some say it is but I'm really nothing special, not particularly smart or beautiful enough to be jealous of so what else could it be? Ladies if you have some insight into this particular issue please share it because I am at a loss. Why are many women in power such biotches?

I must stop here and provide a short side note that acknowledges and praises the many many women in power who are professional, kind and friendly. I know there are many of you out there who may take offence to this particular post but I am simply voicing how I feel given my personal experiences.

Another common theory for this passive agressive behaviour is that women feel they must be extra bitchy to fit into a man's world. However, this attitude needs to be changed. Kindness should not be taken for weekness, especially not in today's world. This dog eat dog mentality I feel is out of date with all the humanitarian movements occuring in this day and age. If that is why women are acting like they've been sitting on pins then they need to take a chill pill and ease up a little no one will think less of you if you actually show you care about other people, it's ok... really!

My personal theory is simple... SEXUAL FRUSTRATION! Many of these women do not have a stable relationship or are too busy trying to build and maintain their careers to let out their sexual tensions. I know it may sound slightly achaic but I believe the simplest answer is usually the best one. So ladies do us all a favour and get laid already so that everyone else doesn't have to deal with your bitchiness or your insecurities.

Thanks for reading all

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